Friday, April 04, 2008

I love you because.......




A few Sundays ago there was the most impressing talk given in sacrament meeting.  It was given by one of the High Council men in my stake.  It has really stuck with me.  He talked about an experience he had as a bishop at age 26.  There was a woman in his ward that had come to him with marital problems.  She was very angry with her husband and asked if they could come see him together.  He agreed and when the couple came to see him before doing anything he asked them to do what seemed like a pretty simple task.  He asked them to look at each other and list all the reasons they loved each other.  That was all it took, all anger and tension left the room. The woman in the story ran into him several years later and expressed her thanks to him for helping so save her marriage.  The funny thing is that he didn't even remember the experience until she told him the story.  He then when on to express how important it is that we share with the people in our lives why we love them.  He said that his family takes the time to have each member in the family sit in a chair and then everyone takes a turn say "I love you because...."  He then went on to encourage us to do the same thing when we pray and express our love specifically to our Father in Heaven.  "I love you because....."  This phrase has really stuck in my head.  It is so simple yet so profound.  I think mostly because lately it has occurred to me just how much I love my family.  Every single one of them for very different reasons!  I strongly believe that they are all in my life to teach me very specific lessons and to help me make it through life.  I have been able to spend some really fun days with my two sisters in the the last few weeks.  They are so AWESOME and words can never explain all the ways that I love them!  No two people can make me laugh so hard.  We have seriously laughed ourselves to tears every time we have been together lately.  I am thankful for their sisterhood and friendship to me.  I love you Katie and Becca!

5 comments:

Unknown said...

I love you too. Why? Because you are so fun to be with. I can talk to you about anything and you still love me. We both love to eat chocolate and coke! We can go lap swimming together and you kick my butt! I look up to for what a strong woman you are. I could never do what you do. I love you so much.

Grammy said...

My Jewels! How I love you! I love you because: from the time you could smile, you would wake up with a sweet smile on your face, even with sleepy eyes you were happy. You have always been such a cheerful person. I love how you have always been such an individual - not always following the crowd, but making your statement to the world in your own way. I love you because you are such a WEENIE when you are in pain! I love you because you are beautiful - not only on the outside, but on the inside even more. I love your amazing spirit, and how you know what you want in life. I love what a wonderful woman you are. You work hard at everything you do - even though you are alergic to work:) You work hard at your job, school, mothering, church, family, all of it! I love that you have such a strong testimony and that you had the faith and the courage to admit your mistakes, repent and turn your life around! That took major strength on your part, and you never hesitated at all. You knew in your heart what was right and you went for it! I love you because you will always enjoy eating good food with me. I love laughing with you and your sisters. I love you because you give such amazing hugs! I love you because you take such wonderful care of my little angel, Ava. Nobody loves her quite like you do and I am so glad that she was entrusted to you. I even love the trails you leave behind. Just know that you hold a place in my heart that no other could ever hold. You are so precious to me! I love you because you are YOU all the way!

Janet said...

What an inspiring story. Thank you Julie.

Jamie and Family said...

What a great post Julie! You've had some very inspiring posts lately. Thanks!!!

Rachell's Place said...

I really like that story! I so wished I had sisters when I was growing up. I think that is really cool that you all are so close :)